dates - what defines it?

after the house warming two weeks back, i went out on a couple of dates with mr A. first thing that caught my eye was his sports car. but me not knowing anything about cars, my friends had to tell me that it's a Maserati and one damn expensive car.

So first 'date' was to watch a play under the Sg Arts Fest called Temple. Whoa, i was struggling to stay awake cos I couldn't make any sense of the play. 7 people, talking about things which doesn't seem to make sense to me, then random things happening like a band coming out and playing, girls in crocodile headgear doing cheerleading... the only thing interesting was the production and set which was very nice. after that, we went over to chinatown hawker to have dinner.

he asked me out again on saturday for dinner, so we went to Mohammad sultan and had dinner in epicurious. i ordered a burger, one of my favourite foods, but then didn't quite enjoy the burger cos the taste wasnt there. but the chip was delightful. crisp, thick and covered with sea salt which gave it a light salty taste but without the artificial salt taste. after that, we went over to st. james and met up with I, who brought along Alex, Alan and Silvia. Mr A had to go off cos he was having a headache, something he has been having of late. he should really go and see a doctor and see what's the matter.

anyway, dating mr A, i realised our age gap is two decades apart thus, the things we talked about was very contrasting as well. he is very articulate and knowledgeable. when we talk, i felt like i'm a student, being lectured about how i should be thinking, guess that's the difference we have and what they call it generation gap. anyway, i think Mr A gets the hint that i'm not keen to pursue. i wonder if there's more to write about Mr A in the future...

if I can't get one, i'll grow one...

i have a weakness for macho guys with goatee. a well kept goatee always gets my attention. but then there are not many guys out there who has facial hair... thus, i've decided, i'm gonna keep one myself. i've started growing one since last friday. hopefully this will last longer than my usual few days of trying to keep facial hair.

rather empty - dress it up

my blog is rather empty. there's nothing pretty about it. hmmm. i need more visual stimulus. i wonder if anyone does ever read this blog anyway. well, as some say, a makeover is due. both, me and my blog. me thinks this is gonna be a slow process. but as they say (or did I make this up myself?), the first step towards succeeding, is the taking that first step.

TGFW - thank god for weekends

here goes another weekend, a single guy here in singapore, no commitments - what does he do? as my friend, another recently singled guy - he works hard, play hard through out the week, which i wouldn't be able to manage myself and i wonder how he does it? he has time to work, gym, date and sex almost every day of the week, where as for me, i just leave my weekends to do my social activities.

come friday, met up with an old friend from kl, m, whom i feel unfortunately distant and unconnected due to the fact that we've drifted apart and things that happened and gave me a different perspective of him. we used to be close, we shared personal things, gave each other support as friends, we were called twins as we shared the same age, traits and our close friendship. he eventually moved on with his life, meeting new people, creating a new circle of more fabulous gym friends to the fact of neglecting his previous friends who was close before including myself. he lead people to believe things that otherwise, it wasn't a genuine reflection of his intentions thus there are many people who felt betrayed. so why do i still keep in contact? we'll despite the person that he is, he has done nothing directly to betray our 'friendship' so it's just nice to see a familiar face and see how they are. but guess catching up, i don't hear anything of his personal life. just how he is with work here, things which acquaintances would talk about.

anyway, after dinner with m at this lil japanese ramen shop in cuppage, we left to go our own way. right at 11.45am, i got a call from n, asking me to come out as it is his last weekend here before he goes back to kl for 4 months thus, i got myself changed, out the door and headed to tantric. as with friday nights, the place was jam packed, but the music was fabulous. pop mixes that has the dance beat that made everyone move. so after a couple of drinks, all of us, n, jk and a friend headed over to tabs for some clubbing. unfortunately the music was kindof blah thus we danced, and headed back after that around 2.45.

came saturday, k and me went over to s&m's place at simei and decided to get in some sun and swim at the gorgeous pool. well, the condo is filled with family, thus the pool was full of lil kids screaming, splashing and running around. i was reading uk's gq and k was wearing his low ride trunks and we couldn't be more out of place.

later in the evening, all 4 of us headed over to gary's housewarming, there was plenty good food. what was really unique was the bubur pulut hitam (black glutinous dessert) paired with pandan flavoured santan ice-cream. gorgeous.

and that night, most of the room was filled with couples and then obviously, the single ones were pointed out so that the singles can mingle. well, overall, there are some nice people that i would like to know more. at this stage, i shall take things slowly and see where it goes from there.

can there ever be too much sex....

...7 rounds, non-stop, which lasted about 4 hours... somehow, it feels rather tiring, but it's one of those moments where i get hooked on and i don't feel like stopping, right until the end, i feel so tired and can't go on any more. yet, when i was hooked, it was one after another, at the end of each, there is no orgasm, just the urge to continue with the next round. now just as i sit here and reflect, i realised that there times when i get hooked, addicted to something, i just refused to stop. and this time, it's sex... and the city. season 1.

firefox users, support the underfox!!

firefox is attempting to set a Guinness world record of the most software downloaded in 24hrs. i'm a current user of firefox and i'm happy with the software. so i've pledged myself to download on the day firefox version 3 is officially ready for download and be a part of group that helps it to set a record.

here's the link for you to pledge and be notified of the download day.

http://www.spreadfirefox.com/en-US/worldrecord

weekend recap - animal instinct, chilling out at emily

well, the weekends almost over. yet again, a good busy weekend. friends from kl came down, got to see my dearest V. we went over to the night safari. my second time there, but the first time was sooo long ago, i can't remember much.

had bongo burger. it was yummy, as recommended by Ash. i was pretty crowded, but wasn't too impressed with the animals there. first thing is it was so dark, everything was dimly lit, couldn't see the animals clearly. duh, it's night safari, wat would i expect? LOL.

after the tram ride, went over the watch creatures of the night show. wasn't impressed as i thought i would see more big animals. but only saw owls, mongoose... cute little furry animals doing tricks.

on sat, celebrated shaun and thyetus birthday at wild rockets and then adjourned to the bar next door. had to leave shortly to meet v at blackberry. well, i discovered a new lesbian bar right at tanjong pagar. but it was kindof boring. just a simple place with a pool table. after that, we went over to toca me. that was much nicer. gorgeous bar, plenty of people, mostly girls, well, to no surprise of cos.

it's sunday, woke up and practically the whole day's gone. i'm still lazing around being unproductive... nice.