here goes another weekend, a single guy here in singapore, no commitments - what does he do? as my friend, another recently singled guy - he works hard, play hard through out the week, which i wouldn't be able to manage myself and i wonder how he does it? he has time to work, gym, date and sex almost every day of the week, where as for me, i just leave my weekends to do my social activities.
come friday, met up with an old friend from kl, m, whom i feel unfortunately distant and unconnected due to the fact that we've drifted apart and things that happened and gave me a different perspective of him. we used to be close, we shared personal things, gave each other support as friends, we were called twins as we shared the same age, traits and our close friendship. he eventually moved on with his life, meeting new people, creating a new circle of more fabulous gym friends to the fact of neglecting his previous friends who was close before including myself. he lead people to believe things that otherwise, it wasn't a genuine reflection of his intentions thus there are many people who felt betrayed. so why do i still keep in contact? we'll despite the person that he is, he has done nothing directly to betray our 'friendship' so it's just nice to see a familiar face and see how they are. but guess catching up, i don't hear anything of his personal life. just how he is with work here, things which acquaintances would talk about.
anyway, after dinner with m at this lil japanese ramen shop in cuppage, we left to go our own way. right at 11.45am, i got a call from n, asking me to come out as it is his last weekend here before he goes back to kl for 4 months thus, i got myself changed, out the door and headed to tantric. as with friday nights, the place was jam packed, but the music was fabulous. pop mixes that has the dance beat that made everyone move. so after a couple of drinks, all of us, n, jk and a friend headed over to tabs for some clubbing. unfortunately the music was kindof blah thus we danced, and headed back after that around 2.45.
came saturday, k and me went over to s&m's place at simei and decided to get in some sun and swim at the gorgeous pool. well, the condo is filled with family, thus the pool was full of lil kids screaming, splashing and running around. i was reading uk's gq and k was wearing his low ride trunks and we couldn't be more out of place.
later in the evening, all 4 of us headed over to gary's housewarming, there was plenty good food. what was really unique was the bubur pulut hitam (black glutinous dessert) paired with pandan flavoured santan ice-cream. gorgeous.
and that night, most of the room was filled with couples and then obviously, the single ones were pointed out so that the singles can mingle. well, overall, there are some nice people that i would like to know more. at this stage, i shall take things slowly and see where it goes from there.
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